How to Give Your First Blow Job

So, you've never given a blow job before. I can imagine what's going through your head... most of you are worried that the guy will just give you a tap on the shoulder and say "that's enough, maybe next time" - the "next time" which will probably never happen, after he goes around and tells everyone that you are a disaster.

Or maybe you're thinking how you might end up miserably bad, or look dumb from up there - or you're planning on getting wasted on a party and hoping that while being completely drunk you won't accidentally bite off a random dude's penis. You might as well toss it out of a window of a moving car - just to make the whole thing worse than it already would be. Or maybe you just reached a stage in your relationship wondering whether it's "the time" to start experimenting, or maybe "his birthday's coming up" - so why not surprise him with the worst blow job in the universe. Or maybe... Whatever.

Advice on Giving Good Blow Jobs

I really appreciate women that are ready to invest a little bit of effort into learning how to give good blow jobs. It is kind of an art. Any woman can do it well with just a little bit of practice and the right advice. Unfortunately, most advice you’ll find on the internet, or from your girlfriends - is false. It kind of misses the essence. I've been asked for advice on "blowjob techniques" countless times - that's all nice. And it can help - but why can't you girls understand that it is NOT about the techniques. It is more a mental than a physical thing - if you really want to blow his mind - then get the essence right first, and learning great blow job techniques will be easier later on.

Most guys like the same stuff, some of them enjoy different techniques more than the other - but all of them enjoy a girl that knows how to act, knows what to say, how to say it and how to create a show for him, a real performance. As long as you are not scratching him and hurting him with your teeth - your technique is okay.